Spoil Her or Lose Her!: Curvy Tik Toker Njoki Murira Breaks the Internet With Bedroom Tips and Millionaire Boyfriend Revelations. But Can She Take Care of a Man?

Kenyan TikTok sensation Njoki Murira is no stranger to headlines, but this time, she’s making waves with a viral mix of bedroom honesty and unapologetic truths about love, money, and modern relationships. 

The curvaceous content queen, known for her bold village dance videos and confident online presence, sparked massive reactions this week after uploading a now-viral video where she gave men candid bedroom tips.  

In the cheeky clip, Njoki claimed that many women secretly love it when their men sleep next to them naked, “bilaz,” as she put it, and even shared the body parts that women enjoy being touched after intimacy. Her straightforward delivery, laced with her signature confidence, left social media ablaze. 

While many male fans praised her for “saying what most women wouldn’t,” others labeled her a clout chaser.  

But Njoki is used to divided opinions, what matters most is that she remains real. And real, she certainly was in a separate revelation that took fans deeper into her private life. 

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In a heartfelt moment, Njoki opened up about her past relationship with a wealthy Black American boyfriend who, at the height of her struggles, sent her $3,000 (KSh 380,000) to help complete the construction of her parents’ home.  

She recalled how her bank flagged multiple large withdrawals, delaying access to funds. But her then-partner stepped in immediately, sending the cash she needed, no questions asked, no strings attached. 

“I told him I needed money… and it was raining. The bank said I had to show up physically. But this man? He sent the money right away,” Njoki said. 

When she offered to repay him, he declined. In fact, she revealed, he didn’t stop there, he continued sending her weekly girlfriend allowance. 

“That guy was a spoiler. May God bless him because he’s probably dating someone else now. He knew how to treat a woman,” she added with a mix of gratitude and nostalgia. 

Njoki, who had once introduced a white boyfriend to her followers, now says she’s dating a Kenyan man, one she claims is also spoiling her, but whom she’s gently challenged to raise the bar her ex set.  

She urged Kenyan men to learn from Black Americans, whom she described as exceptionally generous and emotionally aware in relationships. 

Still, as much as Njoki celebrated being pampered, she wasn’t shy about addressing her own stance on gender roles and responsibilities in relationships. In a moment of self-reflection, she admitted she had once viewed marriage as a way to lead, not necessarily to nurture a man. 

“I wanted marriage because I wanted to lead. But taking care of a man? That’s not something I want,” she confessed. 

That comment left many fans scratching their heads. Can a woman want leadership in a relationship without taking responsibility for her partner’s needs? Is love still a two-way street if the emotional and financial expectations are skewed? 

The internet didn’t hold back. Some applauded her honesty, saying she’s simply voicing what many women feel but never dare say out loud. Others questioned the sustainability of a relationship where one party expects to be “spoiled,” but not to reciprocate. 

Despite the noise, one thing remains clear: Njoki Murira knows her worth, and she’s not afraid to shake things up, on and off the dance floor. 

Whether she’s giving risqué advice on intimacy or reshaping conversations around modern love, Njoki continues to challenge outdated norms and spark dialogue. And as her fanbase grows, so does her influence, not just as a TikTok star, but as a voice in Africa’s evolving relationship culture. 

In the end, her message rings loud and clear: Spoil her or lose her. Just don’t expect her to be your provider.